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Exploring Options for Obtaining & Collecting Child Support

  • Writer: Elizabeth Stewart-Williams, MDR
    Elizabeth Stewart-Williams, MDR
  • Jun 16
  • 5 min read

Parents and/or Guardians come to a point when they face the difficult task of managing child support. Beyond the emotional impacts, understanding the options for collecting child support is essential. Not only does this ensure that children receive the financial backing they need, but it can also simplify the process for parents. This post explores the various options available for obtaining and collecting child support.

Understanding Child Support


Child support is a financial commitment parents makes to the other to aid in raising their child(ren). This includes covering crucial expenses such as housing, food, education, and healthcare. Many parents allow courts to determine these support amounts, and courts have established guidelines, which they have determined to be a priority for their processes and their child's best interests.


When parents decide to utilize the Family Court system for child support, it requires navigating the child support system, which many times determinations for children’s needs are scantily met effective and fair. According to recent statistics, approximately 30% of custodial parents do not receive the full amount of child support due to various complications. In other reports, parents complain about the fees, and amount determinations. Child Support through systems are based on Judicial discretion.


Options for Collecting Child Support


Understanding the different methods available for collecting child support can ease the process and reduce stress during an already challenging time.


1. Private Arrangements


Some parents and/or guardians wisely choose to manage child support privately without involving the courts. This approach allows for more flexibility, collaboration and often leads to amicable agreements. For instance, parents might agree to a monthly payment of $500 based on their combined incomes. This decision assists parents in limiting the government confiscation of financial advancement, government fees, and avoiding criminalization that can occur in Family Court systems.


Mediation can help facilitate these discussions and assist in reaching a consensus on payment amounts, schedules, and how payment is collected. It can also create a safe space framework to address issues that may arise such as parenting time (child visits), parenting and/or guardian childcare practices, and establish boundaries and processes of interaction.


However, private arrangements may come with some risks if parents do not establish a formal mediated agreement (there is a difference between private agreements and capabilities private mediated agreements). A Mediated agreement has enforcement similar to a legal order. Without a mediated agreement or legal order, enforcing payments can become tricky if one parent fails to meet expectations. It is wise to document the agreement in writing and consider legal formalization such as mediation to ensure both parties are protected. You can also use private Arbitration instead of going through Family Court systems if you are need of a third party neutral similar to a Judge, if an agreement can not be obtained. It is a cost with Arbitration, but in the long run, it saves you.


2. Family Court


If a private arrangement is not effective, turning to Family Court might be necessary. Parents can petition the court to establish or modify formal child support orders. Courts assess various factors, including the incomes of both parents and the child's needs. Court determinations are ultimately based on Judicial discretion.


This method results in a legally binding order, simplifying enforcement if a parent defaults on payments. Typically, courts determine and provide guidelines on the support amount to be paid and consider state averages. For example, a parent earning $60,000 annually may be required to pay around 17% of their income in child support for one child.


The risks in Family Court is determinations do not have to follow recommended guidelines. Child Support determinations are ultimately based on Judicial discretion. The Judge can impose what they deem appropriate. Determinations is out of the hands of the parents.


3. Child Support Enforcement Agencies (CSEAs)


Many states have Child Support Enforcement Agencies that assist in collecting payments. These agencies can help establish paternity, locate a non-custodial parent, and enforce support orders.


Utilizing a CSEA means access to trained professionals familiar with child support laws. For instance, they can garnish wages, place you in jail for non-payment, affect driver's license, affect professional state licenses and/or intercept tax refunds to ensure payments are made. While helpful, these services may involve fees. Parents should familiarize themselves with their state's specific rules to anticipate any costs involved.


4. Wage Garnishment


Wage garnishment allows for automatic deductions from a non-custodial parent's paycheck to fulfill their child support obligations. This legal approach significantly simplifies the payment process.


When there is a court order for child support, garnishment can be particularly effective initially. It eliminates the need for reminders or requests from the custodial parent. Establishing this arrangement through court ensures that it is enforceable and adheres to legal standards. There are risks because it affects the pay of both parents. If parents lose a job or even an increase in pay many times parents are gravely affected with fees on both sides.


5. Direct Payments


Direct payments can also work well between parents if an agreement is in place. This might involve bank transfers, checks, or digital payment applications. While convenient, it relies heavily on establishing trust and communication and/or a sound mediated agreement.


To succeed with direct payments, both parties must maintain transparency and consistency. Keeping thorough records of all payments is crucial to avoid future misunderstandings. For example, tracking monthly contributions of $300 can prevent disputes about whether the payments were made.


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6. State Tax Interception


In some states, if a non-custodial parent falls behind on payments, state tax refunds may be intercepted to cover their delinquent child support. This approach can be invaluable for custodial parents who struggle with unreliable payments, but can cause resentment with other parents who may attempt to pay but have issues with job stability.


To use this option, custodial parents usually need to register with their state’s child support agency and provide documentation of unpaid support. This method can effectively recover some owed amount and ensure children receive necessary financial assistance.


7. Legal Intervention for Non-Payment


If a non-custodial parent routinely misses payments, legal intervention may be needed. Custodial parents can seek enforcement options like contempt of court, which can lead to fines or even jail time for the non-compliant parent in severe circumstances.


While this step might feel extreme, taking legal action is sometimes necessary to protect a child's best interests. Consulting with a family law attorney and/or a Family Court Ombudsman can provide insight into the most effective course of action and offer support navigating family court complexities.


Navigating Child Support Effectively


Successfully collecting child support is vital for providing children the support they need post-separation or divorce. Parents have options ranging from informal private agreements to formal court orders, each with its pros and cons.


By understanding the resources available—whether through alternate dispute resolution services, family courts, child support agencies, or direct payments—parents can alleviate frustration and focus on what truly matters: raising their children and ensuring their well-being. Ultimately, informed actions lead to better results for everyone involved. Please take the time to apply actions that are beneficial to your personal lived experience. Your plan looks different than other people and know Family Court Ombudsman is here to assist you!


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